So, Mr. Hypothetical loves to pose hypothetical questions and digress into details of the unknown. He proclaims that he asks a lot of hypothetical questions because it helps him get to know how someone thinks, etc. Our first conversation was a VERY interesting because we were talking about dreams, subconscious & the conscientious. Then of course of about honesty, brutal vs. buffer. I definitely feel like I'm very honest ... but in a sugar coat way. I don't like to be mean or say things that doesn't need to be said per say. Especially in a dating situation, I will tell someone that I am not interested by saying that "I did not feel a connection beyond friendship." I won't straight up tell them WHY. Because the WHY is very hurtful...such that they were too boring, too crude, too whatever.
He had a lot to say in detail as he digress into one topic to the next, and many questions as he kept saying: "Okay so let me ask you this..." followed up with a question that would continue the conversation for many more hours...
Due to so many digressions and such, it ended up being over a 3 hour conversation!!! Some guys I talk to I can't wait to get off the phone, but he kept on and there really wasn't a moment to say "I gotta go." It was really late and I was getting tired talking to Mr. H so at some points during the conversation I did zone out...and had to have him repeat himself. Oooops! He probably thought I was a ditz! Haha. But our talk was intriguing and deep enough that I did not mind being on the phone that long.
His phone ran out of battery which was the only reason I think we stopped talking... or it could have gone all night! Eeek! So I don't know what I think about him YET, but nonetheless a very interesting conversationalist. He did mention how it was very easy to talk to me and I was very articulate. I hate to hoot my own horn (ok not really), but this has been said to be many times that I'm a good conversationalist which he agreed and gave me a "gold star." Lol.
So today I get one gold star... now I'm going to shoot for 100 more! =)
Have you ever had a conversation so interesting that you didn't think to get off the phone?
I think you find him interesting. I hope the chemistry is there in person :)
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